After all, the person is not expecting to be blown away…not just yet.
If you're in a busy restaurant where the staff look harassed and stressed, you might attempt to do what you can to make their job run more smoothly.
But now waiting staff have revealed to that a lot of those seemingly useful tasks are actually more of an annoyance to them.
From stacking plates to putting silverware in glasses and sitting down at tables that haven't yet been clear, you risk seriously irking the person waiting on you by being too 'helpful'.
Then they say, “So my birthday is this Saturday and some friends are getting together. Plus, it may freak them out if you give them a present that most people save for their 10th wedding anniversary.